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The saddest of Madonna portraits


Grief over losing a baby is accompanied by a panic: how to remember what he looked like?


A hundred years ago, capturing images of dead relatives was de rigueur. Dad's eyes were glued shut, his mouth closed, his limbs posed in such a manner as to suggest a quick catnap

Now, research suggesting that families benefit from photographs of deceased offspring has brought the practice back

"There's that pivotal moment, especially after a stillbirth, where mum all of a sudden won't remember what her baby looked like — and there's panic,"

infant bereavement photography has become the domain of professionals

Puc' and Haggard had founded Now I Lay Me Down, relying on just a few photographers. They now have more than 5,000 in over 25 countries, including Canada. The free sessions — valued at between $1,000 and $1,800 — are available for offspring aged 25 weeks of gestation and up and have been provided for babies dead as long as 10 days.

such images help families cope