Until the age of 35, I hid my imaginary genital deformity by avoiding
oralsex and bright lights in the bedroom.
In 1998 when my website went up, I created a Genital Art Gallery where
viewers could submit photos of their sex organs with a brief essay about
their relationship to them. Never again would another woman think there
was something wrong with her vulva for lack of positive imagery. By then,
I knew guys had their own concerns about the size and appearance of their
penises.
Today, many women in the adult industry have undergone surgery for the
removal of their extended inner lips to achieve what one surgeon calls,
"The Clamshell Look," reminiscent of a pre-pubescent girl. Other women
began to want a similar look.
To counter this unnecessary cosmetic surgery, my Genital Art Gallery has
become a research project where both women and men can share as well as
appreciate the vast diversity of our magnificent sex organs.